4) Future Concerns If you’ve gotten past the initial, difficult stages of establishing your stability in a Chinese-foreign relationship, the conversation will inevitably led to the future, which, depending on your personality, will either relieve you or terrify you.
If things are going well with your Chinese partner and you can really see a legitimate future together, there will come a day when you have to make a decision about where to live and raise a family.
3) Stability I have had the opportunity to discuss “stability” with many older Chinese, and this is the big thing I hear from many Chinese parents. Possibly a seven or eight year pit stop, but a pit stop nonetheless.
It’s not so much that they don’t like foreigners, it’s just that there is a stereotype—founded or unfounded—that expats in China are far less stable than their Chinese counterparts. We’ll go back home or move to another country eventually; the parents of your “qin ai de” know this and will take that into consideration.
If you want to get married as soon as possible, that’s fine too.i think this highlights a problem with chinese culture. people are people, therefore we need sex and should be allowed to be honest with each other and have honest relationship. Apr 15, 2015 Ive learned quite a bit about Chinese women in the past month from an African fella who speaks very good Chinese and has been here for 5 years.but china puts a chasity belt on women and brainwashes them into thinking they are whores if they have sex outside of love. I see you and raise Jap AV, Sola Aoi, Pink Barbershops and Weibo. This person is sleeping with various random chinese women on a regular basis.The topic is a perennial favorite on Chinese forums and Weibo.These criticisms are 1) patronizing to the women who date foreign guys 2) slightly xenophobic and 3) not entirely unfounded.
If you’re single, new to China and plan on being here for a while, the issue of dating a Chinese partner will inevitably arise.